Before I tell you how to call a woman to ask her out, I have some question for you. When you get a woman's number and you're picking up the phone to call and "ask her out", does it bother you? Do you get freaked out? Do you start thinking about exactly what you're going to say, how you're going to say it, how to deal with her rejecting you, etc? Do you ever get nervous when you're dialing the phone?
And finally, have you ever worked up the nerve to call, gotten her on the phone, had a great conversation, but when it came time to ask her out, you froze up because you didn't know what to say? Or even worse, have you ever gotten to the end of the conversation and asked her out, only to have her answer with: "Well, maybe... call me Friday afternoon... OK?" or "Actually, I'm going to be busy all this week, but thanks for asking..."
So, how to solve this problem? I think that this is all about understanding the problem, and actually preventing it from coming up, rather than trying to "solve it" in the moment. Let me put it this way. If you're dialing the phone, and you're starting to feel nervous, then it's already too late to solve the problem. No quick fix will help you.
Before we go to how to prevent this problem from coming, let's take a few minutes and talk about the issues and what cause them. Here are some of the "root causes": Having no other girl options, putting too much importance on a single girl, thinking you need to impress her, having expectations and being attached to her. So here is how to prevent the problem from coming up: Get more girl options, dial the phone expecting it to not work out with this girl. And instead of asking a woman out, tell her what you're doing, and then tell her she can come along if she wants.
Now, you may say, that looks very simple. But don't be deceived, just because it's simple, doesn't mean it's easy. Well, to be honest, what I tell you above is just the big picture of how to prevent the problem from coming up, but actually there is a long detail explanation in each step to prevent the problem. And I think it's impossible to explain all the steps in details here.
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